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How to Get a Ring Size Without Them Knowing

Published: Aug 19, 2021
How to Get a Ring Size Without Them Knowing
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The Team
If you’re planning a proposal, you may be wondering how to get a ring size without them knowing. When it comes to proposing, discretion is key, and you want the moment you pop the big question to be unexpected.

Here are three tips on how to get a ring size without them knowing.


Tips on How to Get a Ring Size Without Them Knowing



#1: Calling in the Cavalry
Enlisting the help of your partner’s parents, their friends, and family members may be a clever consideration for how to get a ring size without them knowing. If your partner has a friend who is recently engaged, ask the friend to let your partner try on their ring and casually ask their ring size. Chances are that your partner will never blink an eye or think twice about a friend playfully asking about their ring size.

#2: An Eye for the Size
While not always accurate, sometimes eyeing up the ring size of your partner is your only option for complete and utter discretion. Head into your jeweler and ask to have yourself sized. Once you know your proper fit, you may be able to get a close read on the size of your partner’s just by holding their hand and observing the difference between your fingers and theirs. And they’ll never even know!

#3: When All Else Fails
Perhaps you’re having trouble enlisting the help of your partner’s family and friends, or maybe you don’t live together and accessing their jewelry is too much of a stretch. If you’re still struggling over how to get a ring size without them knowing, don’t panic. Rings can be resized, and it is much more about the sentiment than the fit at the moment you propose. Still, you want everything to be perfect. So, if you need to take a wild guess, consider these average numbers.

The average ring size for women is 6, while the average size for men is 8 ½. If your partner is petite or has thicker fingers, you can use these numbers to help inform whether you need to go up or down in size.

At Dondero’s Jewelry, we’re always happy to help with your jewelry buying needs (especially when it comes to engagements!). Visit us in-store for assistance with sizing, diamonds, settings, and more: 2439 North Delsea Drive, Vineland, NJ.
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